GRACE COUNSELING
MATTHEW 6 and WORRY
Part 2

Charles Hodges MD

1. PRAY!! {Philippians 4:6}

2. Rejoice that you have a difficulty because God will use it to reveal something about
    your heart (verse 4) and bring about something good (Romans 8:28-29) - the
    development of more Christlike character in you.

3. Let your GENTLENESS be evident to all (verse 5). Don't let the circumstances
    determine your behavior, but let the Bible (and the Holy Spirit) determine it. 
    ("Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me - put into practice).

4.  DO NOT worry. DO NOT be anxious about anything (verse 6).  This is a command.
    The Greek word for worry actually means to have a divided mind.
    ●  Since we are commanded not to worry, therefore, it is SIN, which is actually good news for us
        because we can confess sin.  We choose to do it.  It is not a disease or condition over which we
        have no control.  Worry is ruminating (repetitive thing about something that you can do nothing
        about).  Ask God's forgiveness, and then ask Him to help you think about things you CAN do
        something about.
    ●  What God has commanded He will enable us to do if we ask in faith (James 1:2-8).
        The same power that raised Jesus from the dead is available to us. (Ephesians 2:20)!
    ●  Dr. Hodges Drill: Instead of worrying continuously, only allow yourself to pray about the
        situation three times a day ONLY: morning, noon, and bedtime.  In between as soon as you
        recognize you are worrying:
          1. STOP it.
          2. Confess it
          3. Ask God's forgiveness
          4. Ask for His enablement and strength to think about something else
          5. Recite Philippians 4:4-9
          6. The sooner you start doing this, the shorter time lapses become between starting
               and stopping each worry "outbreak"
    ●  There is a Biblical precedent for asking God for a better situation or solution (but limit
         this to only 3x per day) because Jesus did so in the garden of Gesthemene ("If it be possible
         let this cup pass...nevertheless, not my will but yours be done").  BUT: you must be willing
         to persevere, be willing to stick it out if God doesn't have a different agenda.

5.  We are promised that the PEACE OF GOD, which transcends all understanding, will guard
        our hearts and minds if we do these things (verse 7).
    ●  Caution: to allow yourself to think about counterproductive scenarios (like "what if's") will
         retard the work God is doing in your heart and prohibit you from being engaged in your
         responsibilities.

6.  Think about whatever things you CAN do something about (normal concerns) that you CAN
        do something about.  Worry is over things you can't do anything about.  Think about things
        that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, praiseworthy (verse 8).

7.  DO the things you should (verse 9) whether you feel like it or not.  This means housework,
       devotions, exercise, eating right, caring for husband and family, attending Church, using your gifts.
       Don't baby yourself!  Keep busy doing what you should be doing.  If you don't fulfill your
       responsibilities during the day, you won't sleep at night.

HINT:  If you can't sleep, pray for others when you wake up, not yourself (constitutes worry).
       He's found the devil doesn't want us doing this and usually gives up pretty quick if we
       pray for others.
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